About Ra’Kaia Mitchell
Men have always trusted and confided in me. They feel drawn to approaching me out of the blue, pouring their heart out and telling me their sexual secrets and problems in intimacy.
I always had a deep yearning to share more with these men, an ancient wisdom of which I had not yet acquired. I would explore the sexual/ sensual/ energetic realms with them and knew there was so much more that I had not yet tapped into.
Then one day a former partner came along, a man much older than me, who initiated me in the ‘secret arts’ of Tantra and mysticism.
I was at the peak of what I call my ‘primal’ sexual years. I seemed to be hot and bothered all the time, like an itch that I just couldn’t scratch. Lust and fantasy consumed my thoughts, watching porn and needing to masturbate 3X a day sometimes to just take the edge off. I felt like I had an addiction and was wasting a lot of time and energy.
Since my partner at the time was an adept of the Tantric arts, he had already learned how to channel his sexual energy and was using it to make alchemical concoctions, which is what sustained our business.
I didn’t know how long I could go on like this, with a partner who didn’t need or desire the same type of sexual engagement that I did. Little did I know at that time how much better it could get!
That was a very difficult time for me to be denied and have a sexless relationship in my ‘primal’ prime. Turns out, it was the greatest gift I could have received! It led me on to researching the work of Master Mantak Chia, Sexual Kung Fu, Taoism, Kundalini and on to Tantra.
For the past 12 years, I have been exploring my own pleasure and learning how to channel my own sexual energy. Now it is an automatic process and I love to have balance in my life. As above, so below! I have learned that I can channel that energy to fill up my body with heightened states of pleasure, arousal and out of this world orgasms like never before.
Channeling this energy has increased my creativity, confidence, radiance and health overall. It is like an overflowing fountain, however I choose to use it. I believe this is our natural state of being that was shut down in most of us when we were young. I also believe that it’s attainable to get it back and rewire our story around sexuality.
First, I had to learn how to liberate myself and rewire my sexuality, so I could fulfill my deepest passion of sharing this with men. Now, 12 years later, I am living in my sexual prime, spiritually, and it is beyond anything I could have imagined before!
Living as a Sexual Mentor All Over the World
I have traveled all over the world, living as a global nomad for many years, studying and training in these ancient arts with world-renowned teachers. My latest training as a VITA Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach with Layla Martin’s Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality has topped my experience as a Sexuality Coach.
I’ve also been working 1:1 with men for the past several years in coaching, Tantra Massage and retreats to help them overcome their obstacles in sex, love and intimacy. To help them unlearn and unwind the conditioning around what they were taught they are supposed to be as sexual beings. To help them reclaim their power and confidence, release emotional/ traumatic blockages, to learn how to channel their energy and last longer, open up their multi-orgasmic potential, as well as to find deeper purpose and meaning in life.
No matter how much spiritual work or personal development you’ve done, I have found sexual cultivation and this coaching methodology to be unparalleled to anything else I’ve ever experienced!